I'd rather marry a doctor and let him have a mistress on the side if that means not having to worry about money. He want to wait at least one year before he makes any decision he want to take it slow. My dad was in the bishopric for most of my childhood, and I was never the person you describe here. I've been married to a Cardiothoracic and Vascular surgeon for As a matter of fact, I always said that I wouldn't, lol. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. I suggest to run as it will not get better. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. It really can be that simple. The fact that she is dating an atheist non-Mormon shows pretty serious lack of conformity already. I would never give up on him because he got nobody else.
If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity. I think we need to steer far away from medicine…. He blames this on his hours for residency, and to be fair they are really long and insane. All these are reasons to have some serious discussions. You've all been so helpful. She cannot get into the top echelons of heaven without being sealed to a worthy priesthood holder in the temple for time and all eternity. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love.
For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that. If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership. What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life.
The best advice I can give is stay true to yourself. This usually works out great. Props to people who do. All's well that ends well A guy named, "Lovable Luciferian" is dating a Mormon Chick. I have no family nearby as I am from a different country. And her husband now is dead and she is left to wonder about their future. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings.